
this past week i taught my post grads about invitations, time, and appointments. taught them phrases and some examples like:
"hi, i'm calling to make an appointment for a haircut next week..."
...sounds normal right?
not in china! this is actually a VERY foreign concept to my students because SO many things in china are done "on the spot" and without appointments. you just show up or announce things the day of. for example, some of my teammates were invited to go to a wedding and they asked when the wedding would be. the friends responded, "tonight at 6:30pm"...! yep, things like that just don't happen in america because we're a monochronic culture and time is strict, limited, and very scheduled. in china it's the complete opposite being a polychronic culture (educate yourself here: http://hackvan.com/etext/monochronic-vs-polychronic-time.html)